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Anand Karaj

ਅਨੰਦ ਕਾਰਜ

The Sikh wedding ceremony, conducted in a gurdwara in the presence of the Guru Granth Sahib. The couple take four rounds — the Laavan — walking around the Guru Granth Sahib, not around a fire.

Where it is observed
Punjab · Delhi · Haryana · Sikh communities worldwide
Communities
Sikh families
When to send
4–8 weeks ahead
Invitation shape
A morning invitation. Anand Karaj is held in the morning, and the invitation should make gurdwara etiquette clear for guests unfamiliar with it — heads covered, shoes removed, no alcohol or tobacco on the premises.

Who invites whom

Issued by both families. Invitations customarily open with 'Ik Onkar' and are written with respect for the religious setting of the ceremony.

Timing & dates

Six weeks or more. Where guests are unfamiliar with gurdwara protocol, the invitation is the natural place to say so kindly and in advance.

2026–27 date guidance

Anand Karaj is not governed by muhurat in the way Hindu weddings are — Sikh practice does not observe auspicious and inauspicious days in that sense. Dates are usually set around the gurdwara's availability and the families' convenience. Confirm the slot with your gurdwara well ahead, as weekend mornings book early.

The ceremonies

Practice varies by family, community and region — not every household observes all of these.

  1. Roka / Thaka

    The first formal agreement between the families.

  2. Kurmaiਕੁੜਮਾਈ

    The engagement, often held in a gurdwara, where the families exchange gifts.

  3. Chunni Chadai

    The groom's family present the bride with a chunni and jewellery, welcoming her into the family.

  4. Maiyan / Vatnaਵਟਣਾ

    A paste of turmeric and mustard oil applied to the bride and groom at their homes.

  5. Chooraਚੂੜਾ

    The bride's maternal uncle presents her with a set of red and white bangles.

  6. Milniਮਿਲਣੀ

    A formal meeting of corresponding relatives from both families on the morning of the wedding.

  7. Palki Sahib

    The Guru Granth Sahib is installed with full reverence before the ceremony begins.

  8. Ardaasਅਰਦਾਸ

    The congregational prayer offered before the marriage ceremony.

  9. Laavanਲਾਵਾਂ

    Four hymns composed by Guru Ram Das are sung; after each, the couple walk together around the Guru Granth Sahib. There is no sacred fire in a Sikh wedding.

  10. Anand Sahib

    Recitation of the Anand Sahib, followed by Ardaas and the distribution of Kara Prashad.

  11. Doliਡੋਲੀ

    The bride's departure from her family home.

What the invitation must include

  • The gurdwara name and address with a map link
  • The Anand Karaj start time, and the time guests should be seated by
  • A brief, warm note on gurdwara etiquette — heads covered, shoes removed
  • Separate details for the reception, which is usually a different venue and often a different day
  • Both families' names
  • RSVP contact

Wording examples

Adapt these to your family's own voice — square brackets mark what you replace.

Traditional opening

Ik Onkar · With the blessings of Waheguru, [Bride's Parents] and [Groom's Parents] request the pleasure of your company at the Anand Karaj of [Bride] and [Groom].

Etiquette note for guests

As the ceremony takes place in the presence of the Guru Granth Sahib, we request that all guests cover their heads and remove their footwear before entering the darbar hall.

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